Tight Lines Form Strong BondsAssistant Fisheries Biologist I’m no different from any other angler; I love to catch big fish and lots of them. Nothing gets me all fired up like catching bronzeback after bronzeback on a three-day Delaware River float trip; battling toothy northern pike on big flashy spoons as the rain hits the water; drifting live herring for browns, rainbows and lakers on a gorgeous summer day; or the thrill of pulling in monster channel cats on a big wad of chicken liver at midnight. Fishing at its best simply cannot be beaten.
In eighth grade, we began an adventure of paramount proportions; I bought my first boat. No longer were we bound to the shoreline. We were liberated from the confines of dry land. Poison ivy no more. We would fish from sunup to long after sundown. One thing we learned very quickly was irony. I remember the two of us casting the shoreline for smallies. I was using a silver blue fox lure and Ross was using a yellow rooster tail, trying to cast as close as we possibly could to any shoreline structures we could find, knowing fish would be lurking within. The closer we got to the bank, the better the cast, the more fish we caught. We laughed uncontrollably when we realized that for years while fishing from the river banks, we tried desperately to reach the middle of the open water. Now in a boat, we were trying to reach the shoreline! I guess it’s all about perspective. We caught a lot of fish that summer and learned many valuable lessons. In fact, there’s a story we still share today and can summarize in one sentence: "It is never worth sinking your boat in an attempt to retrieve a treed $1.97 Rooster Tail!" I’ll leave the details to your imagination, but three things will paint the picture (1) we got to shore safely, (2) we were able to retrieve the boat (and most of the gear), and (3) you have enough information to figure out whose cast into the tree got us into that debacle. The bottom line is that today we are still the best of friends. As kids, we had a lot of things going for us. Not only did we grow up three doors away from one another, we also found a common bond. While other kids were obsessed with video games and television, our intrigue for the great outdoors, expressed primarily through fishing, bonded us as best buds. Amazingly enough, our careers further bond us; we are both proud employees of the New Jersey Division of Fish and Wildlife.
Last fall, I was humbly honored to have my grandfather stand beside me as my best man during our wedding. Pop joked with me before the ceremony, saying that I should ask my wife to add the following line to her vows, "Shawn shall be allowed to fish as often as he wishes." Pop and I go fishing as often as we can, but not unlike other New Jersey anglers, those trips are far fewer than either of us would like. The pressures and demands of this fast-paced world often leave little time for recreation. I have come to one conclusion: you just have to make the time. On any given outing we may land a trophy lunker or sit in the boat with slack lines; regardless of the outcome, we never complain. Even when the action is relentless, we talk about everything from politics to religion between every cast. It is said that families should make an effort to talk each night at the dinner table. In addition, I highly recommend spending quality time with friends and family on the water. Fishing is a funny thing. On the surface, there is competition to catch the most and the biggest fish, but deep down there is so much more. Taking friends and family adds another dimension to fishing. When I take them out on my boat, I hope that they catch the big one. I want their experience to be one not only for the photo album, but also the memory book. What mattered is that I was there to share the experience for Ross’s first muskie, Pop’s 21-inch smallmouth bass and my wife’s 500th rock bass. Fishing together is quality time shared. Rummaging through my garage last week, I came across my old bicycle. Two rusty twist ties, still clinging to the frame, took me back to my days as a boy in the fifth grade, riding alongside my best friend on a summer day, primed and ready for a fishing adventure. I think I’ll give him a call. We haven’t been out on the water since . . . well, it’s been about three weeks. That’s too long if you ask me. |
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